Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Sneakers in the Boardroom? Just for Shows, Stress, Is the world gone mad? Imported bottled water, and Full Moon this Sunday

Sneakers in the Boardroom? Yes, Please. Gone are the days when corporate fashion meant suffering in stiff heels from 8 to 5. The modern Accra girl is rewriting the rules—and sneakers are officially invited to the boardroom. Comfort meets chic, and honestly? We’re here for it. The Power Suit x Clean Sneakers Combo Nothing says “I mean business” like a tailored suit. Now soften it with crisp white sneakers. Think structured blazer, tailored trousers, and sneakers so clean they practically reflect your ambition. It’s giving CEO-on-the-move energy. Pencil Skirt, But Make It Cool Pair your classic pencil skirt with sleek, low-profile sneakers. Add a tucked-in blouse and minimal jewelry. The contrast between polished and relaxed? Effortlessly stylish. Bonus: you can actually walk fast to that meeting. Midi Dresses & Street-Smart Elegance. Flowy midi dresses and sneakers are the ultimate soft power combo. Whether it’s neutral tones or subtle prints, this pairing says “I’m graceful, but I’ve got places to be.” Anticipate for more style tips in next blog.

Just for Shows. To buy a new Hermès Birkin bag is a long process. There are no published rules but typically you get told they are out of stock until you’ve bought regularly, for about 2 years, total goods worth between 30 and 50,000 $. Shoes, silk, jewelry, watches, and then maybe you are told that the bag happens to be available, at about 13500 $. That is entry level, they also sell some models for 60,000 and 250,000$, depends on the fine details. Or ask for customized, starting at 250k dollar or so. You can then immediately sell your 13500 dollars entry level bag as a second hand bag for 20,000 $ and more. But there’s a way around it, hire a Birkin bag, for about 800 dollars a month (9600 GHC). You can hire a second hand Birkin bag from one of the companies that is now springing up to provide this service, like Vivrelle, a luxury accessories rental company. Nothing new, people used to hire wedding dresses, or smoking for gala dinners. You can also hire jewelry or other accessories. And arrive in a hired top range car. Or you can just go to Makola and buy a bag for 150 GHC.

Stress. I regularly hear that someone is stressed. Ok, we all have money problems but being stressed does not solve them, rather looking for ways to control our budget and to get a better inflow may help. Maybe our smart phone is responsible. How did people in the past live? Sleep early, get up early, maybe listen to the morning news, no disturbing traffic jams to the work place, no mobile phone disturbances during the day or evening, simple food, no running from burger to fries, pizza and shawarma, no trends to follow, no friends to be connected on social media, just real friends you meet, no latest film to must have seen, just a a new dress for Christmas and highlife in the weekend. Life was relatively simple and these people did not complain that they were bored. And they were not stressed. But today we have a huge amount of information flowing towards us every hour, with instagram and tiktok accounts to be followed, trends to be studied, and things we don't really need to be bought. And we are stressed. Sometimes I read that very successful people only start to look at their phones late in the day, and forbid them for their children. We come from nature, we lived in a village where not much changed, the information coming to us was limited. And we were not stressed.

Is the world gone mad? Christie’s, the world's oldest and most successful art and luxury auction house (2025 sales 3.5 billion US Dollar), sold for 1.1 USD billion in just 3 hours 2 weeks ago. The surprising thing is what was sold. I can imagine that a painting of an old master, say a Rembrandt, or Michelangelo goes for a lot of money, these things are extremely scarce and have been valued already for centuries. But what was sold now? A Pollock (1912–56), called Number 7A went for 181 million Dollars. Constantin Brancusi’s bronze head, Danaïde (1913), fetched $107.6 million. And Mark Rothko’s nr 11 sold for 98 million. Time to go to the Ghana tourist market and start investing?

Imported bottled water. These waters typically are from long existing natural springs or, these days, also from boreholes. Sometimes they naturally contain carbon dioxide gas, giving the water nice little bubbles, sparkling water. Famous ones in Ghana are Pellegrini from Italy and Perrier from France. Somehow they’ve both ran out of bubbles and now add them, and this is (supposed to be) mentioned on the label. But a recently discovered problem is that many of these springs and boreholes are now polluted with the leftovers from chemical industries or the run off from agricultural pesticides and fertilizers. Some of these chemicals are the so called PFAS (Per- and polyfluoroalkyl substances are a group of over 10,000 synthetic chemicals widely used for their water, grease, and heat-resistant properties. Known as “forever chemicals,” they feature exceptionally strong carbon-fluorine bonds, meaning they do not break down naturally in the environment or the human body. Many of them are carcinogens). A recent edition of a French consumer magazine mentioned that Pellegrini is passing the allowable limits, Perrier not yet (yet?). This is not a French/Italian competition, this French consumer magazine condemned more than half of the French brands as well. So maybe ordinary local Ghanaian water is our best bet, whether with added bubbles or not.

Full Moon this Sunday. This Sunday's full moon is the phase where the moon appears fully illuminated as seen from Earth, due to its position directly opposite the sun. It is the brightest stage of the lunar cycle and is visible all night, rising at sunset and setting at sunrise.

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