Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: How to Style Jeans for Corporate Meetings — The Everyday Girl’s Power Guide, Alcohol 2, The Wood, and Ice cream, or you scream

How to Style Jeans for Corporate Meetings — The Everyday Girl’s Power Guide. Jeans in a corporate meeting? Absolutely. The modern workplace isn’t about strict suits anymore — it’s about looking sharp, confident, and authentic. And nothing says all three like a perfectly styled pair of jeans. The key? Balancing professionalism with personality. Let’s break it down, Accra Girl style. Go for the Right Jeans. Not every pair of jeans can handle a boardroom. The cut, colour, and fit matter more than you think. Choose: Dark Wash Jeans – Deep indigo or black denim instantly reads “corporate chic.” Straight-Leg or Slim-Fit Cuts – These create a clean, tailored line that mimics dress trousers. High-Waisted Styles – They cinch the waist and add structure to your look. Avoid: Distressed, ripped, or bleached jeans. Oversized or low-rise styles that look too casual. Pair with a Polished Top. The trick is to elevate your jeans with a smart top that means business. Button-Down Shirts: A crisp white or powder blue shirt tucked neatly into your jeans is a timeless power move. Add a slim belt for a refined finish. Silk or Satin Blouses: Add a hint of luxury and femininity while keeping it professional. Structured Tops: Think peplum blouses or tailored shirts — they instantly sharpen your silhouette. Local twist: Try pairing your jeans with an Ankara-trimmed shirt or a bold printed blouse. It’s professional with a pop of personality. Layer with Authority. Layers make your outfit look intentional and sophisticated. Blazers: Your best friend for corporate denim looks. Go for neutrals like beige, navy, or charcoal — or make a statement with bold colors like emerald or mustard. Longline Vests or Coats: Perfect for boardrooms that blast the AC, they add instant polish and structure. Cardigans: A soft cardigan in solid tones can make jeans look office-appropriate without feeling stuffy. Step Up Your Shoe Game. Shoes can make or break your look. Heels: Block or kitten heels add polish without sacrificing comfort. Loafers: A classic choice for sleek sophistication. Mules or Pointed Flats: Perfect for a smart-casual meeting day. If you’re running around Accra’s heat, stylish flats or slingbacks can keep things comfy yet chic. Accessorize with Intention. Keep your accessories classy and minimal — think elegant, not extra. Structured Bags: A leather tote or satchel instantly elevates denim. Jewelry: Gold hoops, pearl studs, or delicate necklaces add just the right touch of elegance. Watch: Because a confident woman always keeps time — in style. Tip: Confidence is Your Best Outfit Even the best-styled jeans mean nothing without poise. Walk into that meeting like you own both the room and the brand. When you look good and feel comfortable, your confidence naturally shines — and that’s what people remember. Jeans can absolutely slay in the corporate space — if styled with care. The Accra Girl knows that success isn’t just about what you wear, but how you wear it. So next time you have a big meeting, slip into your smartest pair of jeans, grab your blazer, and serve boss energy from 9 to 5.

Alcohol 2. I recently explained that alcohol is the number 4 on the list of traditional addictive drugs, before wee (heroine, nicotine, cocaine, alcohol, cannabis=wee) and that the addiction grows slowly, hardly noticeable, but steady, and can take years to become disturbing. So you're dating. Hubby likes life and goes out often, taking you happily along to make the party even better. And he has a few glasses. And he is fun. Beware. If he drinks more than one glass more than once a month you should have your doubts, how much will he drink in 20 years from now? Look at his family as well. If alcohol is a common drug there then you have the second red flag. Check it out, worldwide 5% of the population has an alcohol dependency. That is one out of 20. Maybe choose a buddy from the other 19?

The Wood. 3rd Ringway Estates Oso/North Ridge, Accra. They were proposing a nice line up female vocalists and as I've never visited the place we decided to have a go. A big range of cocktails and a very limited food menu, even more limited because half of what we ordered was not available. One of these places where you should rather ask what they have than ask for the menu, and where the waiters cannot even tell you what type of beer they sell. And it really took very long before our dish arrived, but let's say it was worth the wait It's a bit of a show off place, many dressed for more than the occasion, but nice to watch this unofficial fashion show. A big plus is that they have a reasonable sound system and did spend some time on the soundcheck, though once done no one adjusted things again to the need of the individual singers. The band did a good job at accompanying the singers. Pity that they only started at 9:30pm, though no time was mentioned on the flyer, and a few foreigners who had come, maybe to look for talent, left before the show even started. Don't people have jobs during the day? If the line up is interesting it's a good place to visit, just take you dinner before your get there.

Ice cream, or you scream. I recently saw a few big billboards advertising ice cream, at 25 GHS per scoop, though on the picture it had 3 scoops. Knowing that the Government approved minimum wage is 19.80 GHS per day one starts to wonder. And yes, there's a whole load of workers who are on that minimum wage. They eat corn or cassava dough, and if they can afford it they add some pepper. Not ice cream.

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