Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: The Corporate Kimono Era, Prada has bought rival fashion brand Versace, The Ban on Drumming, Your Blood Group, and Restaurants

The Corporate Kimono Era. The Accra corporate girl is no longer dressing like she’s attending a board meeting from 2007. We’re layering, flowing, and serving elegance with movement. And honestly? The kimono understood the assignment. Whether it’s silky, structured, printed, or neutral-toned, the kimono gives your outfit personality while still keeping it office appropriate. Think of it as your blazer’s cooler, artsier cousin. The Power Styling Formula: The “CEO but Fashionable” Look Pair a long neutral kimono with: Tailored trousers A fitted camisole or bodysuit Pointed heels Minimal gold jewelry Result? You look like you own shares in three companies and still make it to brunch on time. African Print Kimono = Boardroom Royalty: Ankara kimonos over monochrome outfits? Elite behavior. A black dress or all-white set instantly comes alive with a bold print kimono. It’s corporate chic with cultural confidence — exactly the energy Accra girls are bringing to the office lately. Makola meets management. Corporate fashion in Accra is evolving, and the kimono is leading the soft-power revolution. It’s stylish, breathable in this Ghana heat, versatile, and effortlessly elegant.

Prada has bought rival fashion brand Versace for $1.36bn, but this is more than just business as usual. Gianni Versace, born in 1946, started Versace fashion house in 1978, together with his sister Donatella. Donatella Versace In 1990 Gianni met Andrew Phillip Cunanan, though the family has always denied this. Cunanan was a notorious person with many ID’s, and amongst others dealing in and using drugs, and mostly living off elderly wealthy men. In 1997 when Gianni was 50, Cunanan shot Versace twice and fatally. And he murdered a total of 5 people before then shooting himself. Versace’s sister, Donatella then became creative director but could not keep this $500-million turnover company, with its flamboyant reputation for clothes in unconventional materials and offbeat designs going, and eventually Versace amassed a very high pile of debt. Donatella, now 69 has since stepped down as creative director but will remain an ambassador for Versace. She will be replaced by Dario Vitale, who is a former design director for Miu Miu.

The Ban on Drumming. (May 4-June 4 2026) left those who like life music in the dry. +233 Jazz and Grill Bar (Dr. Isert Street, North Ridge, opposite GBC, Accra) was open throughout the period, but without the music, and without the customers. So I went there on the 4th of June, Chris and the Zoom Band were doing their evergreens again, and I ordered my usual kebab. Dry. Maybe it had been there all that time. And the lettuce leaves in the Greek salad were dry as well, for the same reason? But the second kebab was juicy again, back on track. And I wondered how +233 were paying their staff throughout the period, with hardly any income. And how did the artistes survive? 2 Zoom members had called me during the ban for a loan, one claiming the mother in Cape Coast was not well, the other one claiming same for the wife, in Accra. Traditions……

Your Blood Group. As much as you want to know your sickle status before you get married (friend of mine didn’t, first baby was ok, then they had twins, both are sicklers, good morning) you also want to know your blood group. Why? You’re not planning to donate blood? No, but you may need blood. For example before or after an operation, and that may well be an unscheduled operation like an appendix or a car accident. Hospitals don’t have blood? Well, not always. For the most common blood groups like A+ (55%) B+ (22%) and A+ (20%) often they have, but the not so common ones like AB, O-, A-, B- (all between 2 and 4 % of the population only) don’t assume that they have. So if you’re in one of those uncommon groups it is good to know people who have the same group as you. I’d prefer to have blood from someone I know rather than from an unknown donor who may have had unprotected sex the day before he donated and hence might have creeped through the screening process the hospitals are supposed to apply. HIV infected blood is only detected from 10 days onwards after the infection occurred.

Restaurants. There's a lot of restaurants in Accra, or shall I call them eateries, and majority have impressive rankings if you look at them through one of the search engines. The reality is drastically different. Poor service such as QR code menus only (and outdated), waiters not knowing what is available, lack of attention from waiters, long waiting times, no change, no proper napkins (tissues only), poor quality food, clogged salt dispensers, grossly overpriced junk food (the cost of a beef burger is not more than 40 GHC) and so forth. There’s also the more upscale restaurants with beautiful interiors and menus and with waiters in uniforms and booking registers at the entrance where classics like pepper steak and sole meuniere are served, and unfortunately most of them are not worth even half the money they are charging. Real cooks hardly take things from packages or cans or use the microwave and they make their own sauces and use fresh ingredients. And cook. Internationally professional cooks study at least 2-3 years and then do a few years of attachments in the better restaurants before anyone would hire them. There are indeed 6 month courses where you can obtain “certified cook”, but don't think much of it. And some really never learn. At the end of the day it is best to ask friends, but there again one still has to be careful, some are happy with any rubbish as long as they can say they were there.

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