Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Own Your Corporate Style, This year’s Met Gala will be on 4th May, What is white washing? and Patrone Lounge Alisa Hotel Accra

Own Your Corporate Style. The 2026 corporate Accra girl is confident, vibrant, and unapologetically bold. This is not your grandma's office look! Embrace the colours that make you feel powerful and creative, and don't be afraid to experiment with textures and accessories. The modern corporate wardrobe isn’t just about looking professional — it’s about expressing your personality and telling the world who you are through your style.  Soft Neutrals with a Bright Accent: While bold colours are on the rise, soft neutrals are not going anywhere. But in 2026, the secret is in how you accessorize. Think soft creams, taupes, and cool grays, but with a bright, unexpected pop. Maybe a bold turquoise clutch or an electric pink pair of shoes? It’s the perfect way to stay grounded while keeping things fresh and fun.    Why it works: A neutral base allows your personality to shine through with the addition of one or two bold, unexpected accents. It’s the ultimate mix of timeless style and trend-forward thinking. Style tip: If you're wearing a soft taupe dress or suit, pair it with bright shoes or a patterned scarf in a striking colour, like hot pink or electric blue. A fun bag with some texture (maybe some beading or metallic touches) will add that little extra flair!

This year’s Met Gala will be on 4th May. Held annually as a fundraiser for the Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Costume Institute in Manhattan, southeastern New York State in the United States, the Met Gala is a haute couture fashion event like no other, it is considered by many to be the world’s most important and glamorous fashion event. Every year the event celebrates a specific theme. Attendees, who make a contribution of $75,000 per seat, will embrace high fashion and creativity with outfits in accordance with this year’s theme, costume art. Guests are to treat fashion as a living artistic expression, highlighting the body as a canvas for creativity. So expect a bit of flesh (whilst most would do better by keeping things covered). Jeff Bezos, owner of Amazon and his wife Lauren are one of the sponsors, and what she wears will make waves. Mark Zuckerberg and his wife showed up at the Milan fashion week, an interesting competition coming up here. We haven’t seen Musk at fashion shows yet, but his estranged daughter actually walked for Gucci in Milan. Just pray that Trump does not stick his nose inside like he did with the Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts by renaming it after himself and then no one showed up and he had to close it for “renovations”.

What is white washing? And I am not referring to Omo. Let me explain. Let’s assume I am a big time drug dealer and I end up with a million dollar cash under my mattress. If I take it to the bank they will ask where this money came from, they are obliged to ask. And it leaves a trace, banks keep records for centuries. Again, if I buy a building someone may ask from where all that cash, or later someone may ask how I got all that cash to buy that building, my tax records show no such income. If I want to go into politics, during the vetting it may become a problem. So I need to find a way to make this dirty money clean. I open a boutique, and every day I happily write invoices for about 20,000 GHC sales, whilst no one bought anything, and I bring that cash to the bank. They will even congratulate me on my successful business. At the end of the year the taxman will assess this profit and I have to pay 25% tax. Add the cost of running the shop and the girl in it, all in all I lose about 30 %. But now my money is perfectly legal, 1,000,000 $ dirty money has become 700,000 $ clean money. This issue is very widespread in Ghana, I have even heard young men singing their song “we are the whiiiiiite washers”, and I have seen girls posting “I wished my boyfriend was a white washer, I’d just go to the shop 30 minutes a day and for the rest watch movies”. And not only boutiques can wash, eateries, hotels, what not. The Government does not seem to mind very much, they get that tax of 25%, and maybe a little gift to keep their eyes a bit closed. The down side is that Ghana is becoming a narco state thriving on drugs transits, white washing, internet fraud, what not. And if you really want to run a boutique you are competing with someone who does not sell clothes but washes money, and who does not care how much they sell their dresses. So honesty does not pay any more, rather this illegal business is destroying the honest business. It is serious, for example the traditional real estate people who built half of Accra currently cannot pay off their bank loans, their buildings are empty, rents are down, because my clean 700,000 $ went into a building, better and safer than in a bank, and I don’t care if it is profitable.

Patrone Lounge Alisa Hotel Accra 21 Dr. Isert Road, North Ridge, Accra, is a good place if you want to have a quick quiet meeting and be a bit out of sight. A soda water cost 20 GHC, fresh orange juice is 35. They serve groundnuts and plantain chips with it so you can nibble whilst you talk. Service is correct.

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