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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Friday Office Fashion, Thrift sales are up, Cursed by Gold? Free pads? Room with a view, and Mussels at the Cyril Restaurant and Grill at the Bulgarian Cultural Center

Friday Office Fashion: Casual, But Don’t Overdo It. It’s Friday, the weekend is calling, and suddenly your corporate wardrobe starts whispering: “Jeans. Sneakers. Oversized everything.” But for the Accra corporate girl, Casual Friday doesn’t mean looking like you accidentally took a wrong turn on your way to brunch. The goal is relaxed, stylish, and still very much boss-lady appropriate. Think smart jeans with a crisp shirt, tailored trousers with a chic polo or knit top, or a relaxed midi dress paired with clean sneakers. You can loosen up without losing the polish. The secret? Keep one structured element in your outfit. If your trousers are casual, wear a polished blazer. If you're wearing denim, add a sophisticated blouse and elegant accessories. Balance is everything. And please—Casual Friday is not an excuse for bedroom slippers, overly distressed jeans, or that tired T-shirt from university. Your Friday look should say: “Yes, I’m ready for the weekend—but I can still handle a 2 p.m. meeting if necessary.” Because being comfortable is great, but being comfortable and effortlessly stylish? That’s the real corporate girl flex.

Thrift sales are up. It’s not only in Ghana that we like to scout for nice dresses from second-hand shops or cheaper still, from bend-down boutiques. Europe is playing its part as well. Websites like Vinted and Depop offer second-hand dresses and other items directly from seller to buyer (with a commission for the platform of course). Sales are up 60% compared with the previous year. What used to be shameful (wearing second hand stuff, meaning you were poor) is now becoming trendy and world environment saving. Next thing we’ll be re-exporting our selected finds to where they came from. Anyway, if you say recycling, Africa has always been in the lead.

Cursed by Gold? Those who are in farming will know that it is more and more difficult to find farm labour. One of the reasons?? The youth goes for galamsey, and once they have a little bit of money they leave the country. And typically it is the more entrepreneural ones who will decide to leave, so we’ll be left with the laggards, and without gold.

Free pads? H.E. John Dramani Mahama once proposed this so that girls could continue to attend school, but in our society if you say menstruation pad you almost say unspoken words and his proposal was ridiculed. But we should talk about this, it’s an ever reoccurring issue, and there is nothing ridiculous or dirty about it. In France the compulsory universal medical insurance reimburses two reusable pads and menstruation panties per year for girls up to 26 years old. At the same time the products must have been technically approved, so they do not contain dangerous chemicals.

Room with a view. I decided to have a few days away from the rush and booked a room in Afiki hotel in Ankwanda (a small fishing village), 20 minutes after Elmina. The room has views of the village and the sea beyond, with a very good view from the balcony. Nice and relaxing. They have a medium sized pool as well and are right on the beach. About as close to paradise as you can get. The place is not that popular and room rates are a bit okay. Many similar places on the sea now charge between 1500 and 2500 GHC per night… But hélas, paradise eluded. The room itself was okay, with a nice bathroom, but the view was onto a few heaps of garbage and blocks and a lot of goats. Standing on the very narrow balcony didn't change much except that looking into the direction of the sea you now also saw the back of a staircase. Moral of the story: ask for pictures before you book. And the next night the villagers were having a festival, the very “hotel beach” was full of littering people and a huge sound installation which even the room window could not filter out and I had dinner in the open air hotel restaurant with earplugs in. I had meanwhile changed to a room which indeed had a reasonable view, but the lighting was only one lamp on the ceiling, no bedside lamps. This bathroom was funny, it had a big window towards the room with a curtain in front of it, so if you wanted you could observe what was happening there from the room itself. Rooms…..

Mussels at the Cyril Restaurant and Grill at the Bulgarian Cultural Center (10 Kakramadu Road, Cantonments, Accra). I was told they had fresh mussels again, and indeed they were huge and fresh and nicely cooked with some spices and carrots. I think it’s the wife of the manager who does the cooking. She previously had a restaurant in Amsterdam, and I’d say she knows what she’s doing. The typical Ghanaian mussel can be found at low tides on rocks at the beach, but they are small, maybe biggest is 2 inches. But these are from Japan, up to 4 inches. Bought in Tema. Strange? They stick to the bottom of ships and thus travel the world. They had a big all comprising fish dish for 2 as well with crabs, prawns, shrimps, oysters, clams, lobsters, squid and octopus. Finger bowls provided. I had grilled chicken there the other day as well, nicely grilled and juicy, also recommended.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: The “I Have Nothing to Wear” Office Fashion Emergency, Choosing the right hubby is only the beginning of the road, Ladies, Beware!, Crescent Rolls, and Sushi at Home

The “I Have Nothing to Wear” Office Fashion Emergency There is perhaps no greater morning drama than standing before a wardrobe filled with clothes and confidently declaring: “I have absolutely nothing to wear.” For the Accra corporate girl, this familiar fashion emergency usually happens on the morning of an important meeting, a presentation—or simply a day when looking effortlessly polished feels non-negotiable. But before rushing to the shops, consider this: the perfect office look may already be hanging quietly in your wardrobe. The Art of the Wardrobe Rediscovery: Luxury is not always about owning more. Often, it is about seeing what you already own with a fresh perspective. That forgotten blazer can instantly sharpen a simple pair of trousers. An old white shirt becomes effortlessly elegant when paired with a structured midi skirt. A neutral dress you rarely wear can feel entirely new with a belt, refined accessories and a beautifully tailored jacket. Start With the Classics: When inspiration disappears, return to the pieces that never fail: crisp shirts, tailored trousers, structured blazers, elegant dresses and timeless skirts. Then elevate them through styling. Think tonal dressing in shades of cream, chocolate, black or soft beige. Add polished shoes, a structured handbag and subtle jewelry. Suddenly, familiar pieces feel intentional, sophisticated and quietly luxurious. Style Over Shopping: The most stylish women are not necessarily the ones with overflowing wardrobes. They are the ones who understand proportion, layering, texture and the power of impeccable styling. So the next time you find yourself staring dramatically into your wardrobe, remember: you may not need a new outfit. You may simply need a new perspective. Because sometimes, the most luxurious thing in your wardrobe is not something you just bought—it is something you finally learned how to style beautifully.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Quiet Luxury in the Accra Office, Trouble for the luxury brands, Antibiotics, Climate change and wine, +233 Jazz & Grill Bar

Quiet Luxury in the Accra Office. Embrace the Power of Neutrals: Cream. White. Black. Camel. Chocolate brown. Navy. Grey. These colours have a naturally sophisticated energy and make mixing and matching much easier. Imagine a crisp white shirt with tailored brown trousers, a structured handbag, and elegant loafers. Simple? Yes. Boring? Absolutely not. Quiet luxury is all about making simplicity look intentional. Choose Quality-Looking Fabrics: Your outfit doesn't have to be expensive—but it shouldn't look cheap. Look for fabrics with structure and a polished finish. Think crisp cotton, linen blends, good-quality crepe, structured suiting, and smooth fabrics that hold their shape. The goal is to look effortlessly put together, even after surviving Accra traffic. Grooming Is Part of the Outfit: Quiet luxury doesn't stop at your clothes. Neat hair. Fresh makeup. Well-maintained nails. A beautiful fragrance. Clean shoes. You don't have to look overdone—you just have to look intentional. Because sometimes the real luxury is looking like you had your life together, even when your morning started with traffic, unanswered emails, and a trotro driver testing your patience. The Quiet Luxury Rule? Confidence. At the end of the day, looking luxurious isn't about pretending to be someone you're not. It's about choosing pieces carefully, wearing them well, paying attention to details, and carrying yourself with confidence. Quiet. Polished. Powerful. Expensive-looking that's the corporate luxury fashionista.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: How to Look Expensive, Polished & Effortlessly Elegant—Without Designer Labels, Fashion Show Galore, Pain killers, Sticky Non-Stick Frying Pans, The Internet of Things and Make Sure You Don't Lose Your Password, and People Social Eatery

How to Look Expensive, Polished & Effortlessly Elegant—Without Designer Labels. Dear Accra corporate girl, luxury is not always about the logo on your handbag or the price tag on your blazer. Sometimes, the most expensive looking woman in the office is the one wearing a perfectly tailored pair of trousers, a crisp shirt, and enough confidence to make everyone wonder, “Where does she shop?” Welcome to the world of quiet luxury—Accra office edition. Tailoring Is Your Best Investment: You don't need a wardrobe full of designer clothes. What you need is clothing that fits beautifully. A well-fitted blazer, tailored trousers, or a structured dress will instantly make your outfit look more luxurious. Avoid pieces that are too tight, too loose, or awkwardly proportioned. The secret? Sometimes, a simple trip to your tailor can make an affordable outfit look like it belongs on a luxury runway. Keep Accessories Elegant, Not Excessive: Quiet luxury doesn't need everything to scream for attention. Choose one or two beautiful accessories: a classic watch, delicate jewellery, a structured handbag, or elegant shoes. Remember, the goal is not: “Can everyone see my accessories?” The goal is: “Why does she always look so polished?” Your Shoes Can Make—or Break—the Look: You could be wearing the most beautiful outfit, but tired-looking shoes can change the entire story. Invest in versatile styles such as: – Classic pumps – Elegant loafers – Minimal sandals – Pointed flats – Clean, sophisticated heels And please, Accra corporate girl: keep them clean. Luxury is often in the details. So the next time you walk into that Accra office, remember: You don't need a designer logo to look expensive. You just need good style, great tailoring, and the confidence of a woman who knows exactly who she is. That is the Accra Corporate Girl luxury aesthetic.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Paris Fashion Week 2026, Naomi Campbell's tall trees catch a lot of wind, Diet drinks work as well as water for weight loss, major trial finds, and A glass of wine? No thank you.

Paris Fashion Week 2026: Paris Was Doing the Most. Paris Fashion Week arrived with one simple message: please leave the ordinary at home. From September 28th to October 6th, the French capital turned into one giant runway, with Spring/Summer 2027 collections bringing drama, tailoring, fantasy and plenty of “Wait… where did she get that?” street style. The runways were serving fashion with a French accent—sharp tailoring, beautiful silhouettes, unexpected proportions and enough attitude to make even a coffee run look editorial. And then there was the street style. Parisian fashion girls stepped out looking effortlessly expensive, while editors, models and influencers turned sidewalks into their own personal catwalks. The real skill? Looking like you just threw something on when you clearly spent an hour making it look that way. For the Accra fashion girl, Paris offered plenty of inspiration. Think relaxed tailoring that can survive the Accra heat, oversized sunglasses for maximum main-character energy, statement bags, elegant neutrals and shoes that say “I have a meeting at 10 and cocktails at 7.” Of course, Ghanaian fashion girls already know the assignment: confidence first, outfit second. Whether it is a perfectly fitted kaba-inspired silhouette, bold African print, sleek trousers or a killer accessory, the Accra woman has never needed Paris to tell her how to make an entrance. Paris may have the Eiffel Tower, but Accra has Oxford Street, Cantonments and a fashion girl who refuses to overdress—because there is no such thing. Paris Fashion Week 2026 proved once again: fashion is not just what happens on the runway. Sometimes, the real show starts when you step outside.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Milan Fashion Week, Hanging Your Dirty Lingerie Outside? and City Hotel

Milan Fashion Week: Abeg, Who Told Everyone to Dress Like This? Milan Fashion Week has arrived, and nobody came to behave. Milan Fashion Week is that one week when even getting coffee looks like a fashion moment. From September 22nd–28th, 2026, the city became one giant fashion playground—runways inside, street-style slay outside. Milano traded its usual Italian ease for seven days of runway drama, street-style theatre and fabulous outfits to make your wardrobe question its life choices. Also enough designer bags floating around to make your bank account feel personally attacked. Prada opened the week. Vogue World: Milano brought the spectacle. Fendi, Gucci, Max Mara, Dolce & Gabbana and Armani brought the heavy hitters. And the streets? Pure fashion chaos—in the best possible way. In Milan, apparently, “I just threw this on” means perfectly tailored trousers, an immaculate handbag, sunglasses, killer shoes and a coat that probably costs more than your first car. But Milan Fashion Week isn't only about the runway. The CNMI Fashion Hub at Palazzo Morando brought fashion closer to the public, while Palazzo Reale hosted Dalí e la moda, adding an art-meets-fashion moment to the week's agenda. And outside the shows? Brera, Via Montenapoleone, the Duomo and those effortlessly polished Milanese streets became their own street-style runway. The Milan formula was clear: impeccable tailoring, beautiful accessories, confident silhouettes—and absolutely no apology for looking expensive. Meanwhile, the Accra fashion girl is taking notes: Can it survive Accra heat? Can it handle Airport traffic? Can the heels survive Independence Avenue? Because Milan may have the marble palazzos and Via Montenapoleone, but Accra has its own fashion language—bold, expressive, practical and unapologetically stylish. Milan brought the Italian polish. Accra brings the personality. SS27 just got a lot more interesting. Milan understands one important thing: If you're going to be seen, you might as well give them something to look at.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: London Fashion Week, Odd Fashion Shows, Films, Water, Canoe Beach Sushi & Grill, and Full Moon this Saturday

London Fashion Week. Forget the runway. London was the runway—and darling, the pavement was fully booked. Give London a little rain, a few black cabs, a red double-decker and a fashion crowd dressed like they’re late to something extremely important—and suddenly the whole city is serving Fashion Week. From Soho to Hyde Park, trench coats were flying, boots were marching, sunglasses were appearing in questionable weather, and the Tube was basically transporting fashion editors from one outfit change to the next. London wasn't just hosting Fashion Week. It was wearing it. London Fashion Week 2026: London, Take Your Bow !!! The runway was everywhere. From September 17–21, 2026, London Fashion Week turned the capital into one giant fashion set—and the pavement was just as important as the catwalk. More than 220 designers brought collections, presentations and experiments across the city. Paul Costelloe opened with a nautical-inspired collection, while outside, the street-style crowd was already serving: oversized tailoring, dramatic coats, boots, statement bags and sunglasses—because apparently grey skies are no excuse for bad accessorising. Then came Olympia London, where H&M brought the star power with names including Lila Moss and Alex Consani. Outside? Another runway. Cameras flashed as fashion editors, models and influencers moved between shows. Across London, Burberry, Simone Rocha, Alexander McQueen and Mulberry pulled the fashion crowd from venue to venue—and every journey became another street-style moment. Meanwhile, Fashion Scout's 20th anniversary season brought emerging-designers energy, while Art Hearts Fashion transformed St. John's Church in Hyde Park into another fashion destination. And naturally, London supplied the special effects. Rain. Wind. Wet pavements. Black cabs. A coat billowing dramatically in the breeze? Editorial. A puddle reflecting a perfectly styled outfit? Content. Hair slightly ruined by the weather? Call it texture. Meanwhile, the Accra fashion girl is watching from 30°C thinking: “Gorgeous. But please show me the linen version.” The venues brought the fashion. The streets brought the attitude. The weather brought the drama. And London turned the whole city into a runway.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: NYFW 2026: The major fashion weeks are there again, New York Is Serving, Accra Is Watching!, Fashion Weeks here back Home, Babies born to anaemic mothers have smaller brains, Lebanon Mountain Restaurant, and Grandparents Day

The major fashion weeks are there again. The world’s biggest? Upcoming Fall 2026 / Spring 2027. New York Fashion Week: September 10 – 15th, 2026 London Fashion Week: September 17 – 21st, 2026 Milan Fashion Week: September 22 – 28th, 2026 Paris Fashion Week: September 28 – October 6th, 2026

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Crocs but Make it Corporate, Irish fashion and politics, Every Ghanaian is rich, Anemia and chicken livers, Babies born to anaemic mothers have smaller brains, and No more steaks at the Ecuyer

Crocs but Make it Corporate. So, can Crocs work for the corporate Accra girl? Absolutely—but style is the difference between “fashion-forward office girl” and “why did she wear that to work?” Wear them with confidence, keep your outfit structured, and remember: in 2026, the corporate wardrobe has room for personality. Pair your Crocs with: – Wide-leg tailored trousers + a crisp shirt for that “I have a 9 a.m. meeting, but my feet are still at peace” look. – A structured midi dress + blazer for a playful but polished corporate twist. – A matching co-ord set for effortless fashion-girl energy. – An oversized corporate shirt + pencil skirt when you want to mix classic office wear with a little rebellion. The Accra Reality Check: Between Accra traffic, long working hours, running between meetings, and those spontaneous after-work plans, comfortable footwear is honestly a luxury. Crocs give your feet room to breathe while still allowing you to participate in fashion’s latest “ugly shoe but make it cool” era. And in true Accra girl fashion, if you style it well, it can go from office desk to brunch without changing shoes. Comfort is no longer the opposite of fashion. The Accra corporate girl is wearing both.

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Lydia's Weekly Lifestyle blog is for today's African girl, so no subject is taboo. My purpose is to share things that may interest today's African girl.

This week's contributors: Lydia, Pépé Pépinière, Titi. This week's subjects: Crocs in the Boardroom? Who is Diane von Fürstenberg, Are you backing up? Package leaflet / Patient information leaflet (PIL) / package insert / drug facts label / package insert, and Lunch at Elmina Castle

Crocs in the Boardroom? The Accra Corporate Girl Said Yes! Let’s be honest: there was a time when Crocs were strictly for quick errands, hospital shifts, beach trips, or that “I’m not leaving the house for anything serious” mood. But fashion has officially changed the rules, and the Accra corporate girl is ready to clock in—with comfort and style. Yes, sis. Crocs can enter the corporate conversation. The secret? Styling them intentionally. The Corporate Crocs Formula: Forget the loud, overly decorated pairs for a moment. For the office, think neutral shades, sleek silhouettes, and elevated styling. Black, cream, beige, brown, navy, and even muted pastels can blend beautifully into a corporate wardrobe. Keep the Rest of the Outfit Polished: Crocs are already making a statement, so let the rest of your outfit say, “Yes, I planned this.” Add a structured handbag, neat hair, simple jewellery, and a clean, well-tailored outfit. The goal is not to look like you forgot your office shoes at home. The goal is to look like you knew exactly what you were doing. Jibbitz? Office Appropriate Edition: Personalising your Crocs can be fun, but maybe don’t turn your shoes into a full amusement park before your Monday morning presentation. Choose a few stylish charms—minimal, chic, and relevant to your personality. Remember: corporate, but make it fun.

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